Category Archives: Life Happenings

It is so easy to help others

Or to do someone a favor.

“Hey, will you do me a favor?” They ask.

I answer, “Sure!” or “I will if I can.”

But what about doing ourselves a favor? That seems difficult at times. Continue reading


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No Matter What

I thought you would enjoy this meditation by a friend from church, Lori Braswell:

No matter what…..those 3 words we use quite often in our day-to-day lives.

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Navigating The Storm

Have you driven through a dreadful storm? Rain? Thunder? Lightning? Snow? Fog? No visibility? Rain coming down in sheets where you cannot see in front of your hood?

Sure. We all have at some point. Well, maybe not all.

What do you do then? Continue reading

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Trust is Tricky

It is just so easy to say we trust someone or that we trust God. But, WOWSER!, when something goes wrong… !!!

It is then that trust becomes tricky.

Driving my 35 mile commute to work is nothing most days. I sit back and stare ahead when the sun is out and the day is clear. But let an ugly thunderstorm kick up and the rain come in sheets making visibility a wish instead of a reality, then where is the trust? Or when the entire bridge over the Mississippi is invisible due to solid fog, trust is invisible as well.

But what, exactly, is trust?

Reliance on the integrity, strength, surety, ability, etc.; in a person or thing. Confidence. (

Trust, as you can see from the definition, has absolutely nothing at all to do with the circumstances being perfect. It has to do with the thing in which you are trusting.

When circumstances are undesirable, our ability to trust is proven. Or shown to be lacking.

Trust is like character. It needs to be proven to show its worth. It needs to be tested to show that it can be counted upon.

Don’t despair when testing comes, let it show the stuff you are made of. The Bible tells us that.

Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything. James 1:2-8

Maybe joy is hard to come by at first, we can work up to that. We should at least count it as a good thing because then our trust level and our character can grow and we, thereby grow in equal measure.

Pat Meyers
Counting it Joy (at least attempting to)

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On Giving Cheerfully

2 Corinthians 9:7 tells us clearly that God loves a cheerful giver. Don’t give under compulsion, Paul tells us, but give what you determine to give. And give it cheerfully.

That entire passage is specifically speaking of money. Cash. Dollars. So it cannot be confused that we are to give money cheerfully.

But I am wondering if that principle couldn’t also be applied to other instances of giving. Continue reading

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Are you in a challenge?

Or facing a struggle? A test? Trial?

Or something of the sort?

I am.

And this is what I have to say to you (and to me):

Phil 4:13

I have faced challenges before, as I am certain you have as well; but with each test comes the struggle. The struggle of knowing what to do. The struggle of trusting the One who has promised to help us.

So we remind ourselves again of how we managed the last one and that we will not be left alone during this one.

Psalm 121:2
Life is full of ups and downs. My goal: to smile on the way up and the way down!
Pat Meyers
Putting on the grins

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A life consistent

There is nothing like a story of someone who changed their situation massively. Or someone who overcame tremendous odds. You know, the Olympic athlete that came from meager beginnings and worked 42 jobs to enable him/her to train 100 hours a week and made it to the Olympic podium winning over those with every possible support and resource available to them. Or the author who sold their first manuscript for a million dollars and went from rags to riches by their skill and talent and determination.

Those stories stir us, inspire us, motivate us, and sometimes shame us. They are fantastic. Continue reading

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I remember the day

I remember the day my husband stood between my IV port and the nurse. I have met nurses a’plenty through my years, not many are like this one; but this one was my nurse at the time.

I had had a minor surgery (as if any are really minor). Family was not allowed in Recovery Room #1. I woke up and they game me pain meds through my IV. Not long after my feet started twitching uncontrollably. “Weird,” I thought. Then my hands were feeling unconnected to my body. Continue reading


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Watching Life Out My Car Window

If you drive to work every day, and take the same route, you see life happen outside your window.

Houses sell, families move in.

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People are funny

Sometimes, as day runs into day, it is easy to miss the hilarity that meets us through people all around us. Or we ignore it. Or forget it.

But life is fun because of people.

three people laughing


One of the things I like more than anything is witty-ness and puns. A really good pun can tickle my funny bone to the embarrassing point. Sometimes, if it really tickles me, I can laugh about it again and again, reliving it. Continue reading


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